Socializing and Training
How do I safely pick up or hold my kitten?
Pick up placing one hand under the chest and with your other hand, support under your kitten’s rear end. Do this often to get your kitten used to it!
How should I get my kitten used to petting?
Your kitten may be fearful of touch at first. Focus on getting him used to being pettedgently on the middle of the back, moving your hand in line with his fur growth. Some kittens don’t like to be petted on the head and others don’t like near the tail or the stomach. Pay attention to your kitten’s body language, including whether they’re swishing/wagging their tails, (this is not a good sign in cats as it is in dogs) to help show you when to stop.
Can I scruff my kitten?
Scruffing is grabbing the kitten’s fur at the back of the neck, just as a mother cat would do to carry or discipline. Scruffing should only be done by trained veterinary professionals, and even then, it’s really only the mother cat who should ever scruff a kitten!
How can I help my kitten be less nervous?
Kittens can be very reactive to loud noises or fast movements. Have children practice moving slowly and quietly around your kitten and always ensure that your kitten has a safe place to go that is dark and quiet (a spare bedroom works well for this) that can be your kitten’s safe zone to escape when scared.
How can I stop my kitten from doing things I don’t like?
Kittens respond best to positive reinforcement, not punishment. Don’t hit or yell, as this makes behaviors worse. You can deter your kitten from countertops using startle methods (a water bottle your kitten won’t see you spray or “hiss” machines that sit on your counters and hiss when your kitten jumps up), but in general, it’s best to place your kitten on the floor and reward her for being on the floor instead of the counter with a treat and praise.
More About Kitten Behavior
For more information on addressing behavior problems, see our guide on Kitten Behavior)